Your Specific E-mail Response: I must be physically attracted to you, so in your e-mail, kindly Attach your pic (face not necessary) and describe yourself. If you fail to do so, I will fail to respond. Period. Absolutely NO penis pics. In order to weed out the fakes, IF I find you attractive, After your 1st e-mailI I will ask you for a pic that clearly illustrates your body's fitness. Then, I will gladly attach my pic.
My Specific Type of Man: Single, Sane, a firm and fit body, HWP, attractive, drug free, tall, std free and can confirm it, a non-smoker, sensual, loves to please, chivalrous, and erotic.
Now I grant you that younger people in general do not share the same attraction to older people that older people have for younger people; and that is normal. But please, do not look down on us for the attraction, or for answering your posts. A simple no thanks is all you need to say, or perhaps, say nothing at all.
Our bodies do not respond as well, and it is a little harder to stand up perhaps, but you know what...Other than that, we really are no different than you, except for more life experiences. In some ways that makes us smarter than our younger counterparts, and in some ways it makes us more cautious. Perhaps that is the same thing.
I'm not asking you to develop an attraction for older people, attraction is what it is. But really folks, don't put us down for our age; you will be there one day too and believe me, it will be there sooner than you think.
I have a little meat on my bones...so can you (but there is a difference between thick and excessive)
I'm looking for a FWB, someone who can get together every so often for some fun.
There are some opposites that don't attract though: I'm cut and I'm not really into uncut. I'm masc and not into fem. I'm young, but I'm not looking for anyone in their 60s.
In the past, my hard drive was very efficient; however in recent years it has had very little use and tends to be a little slow booting up. I think the capacity is adequate, even though it is only about 7 gigabytes, but it does tend to serve its needs. Perhaps the right person could assist in checking my RAM and helping with a complete physical dump to clear my system. Hopefully she can assure my RAM has been cleared of every bit of data that may be backing up my system.
I would like to try networking, and am wondering about how to connect my unit to the ports of another unit. I know that most systems have three ports, and I would like to connect to all of them if possible, but that would be your call, as many people prefer to keep their firewall up to prevent access through the back-door.
While you are tuning up my system, I would like to explore yours to see first hand how well newer units work. I understand many are quite flexible and are great for extreme gaming. I love exploring & learning, and have been known to bury my face in a good book for hours on end; I would like to get just as deep in your system and explore every system and subsystem from top to bottom and front to back. I think I could really eat it all up.
Sometimes when my system is not running right, I find a little light slap on the back side gets it moving along, but perhaps that is just my imagination. I would have to ask your opinion on that one, as to whether or not that works with your system; I wouldn’t want to shut down a system just as it was warming up.
If you are in south Charlotte (Pineville, Rockhill, Carowinds, Ballentyne) that would work out. Would like to meet some fit and somewhat attractive gal who is open to having a bit of fun and exploring possibilities with. Good conversation and imagination are important! I am not interested in a BBW, prefer white, and who thanks she "play" the role. No BS, games, websites or people pushing services.
Drop me a message of more than one line. Tell me something about yourself and your interests. A picture would be appreciated.
So, what will my "long lost sister" talk to me about?
Slide 2 Titled "What I'm Looking For": I'm looking for a fun NSA sexual fling that could be a one time deal or could lead to a multiple occurrences. This all depends on our chemistry, how well we hit it off, yadda yadda yadda. But here's the catch - I don't want to jump straight to bed. From what I hear on the street, most women want a date before getting their freak on. This includes dinner, movie, intelligent conversation, flirty banter . . . those little things that one can enjoy and will build the underlying sexual tension. :) Again, chemistry is a must, and assuming we hit it off, we can go back to your place, my place, or neutral location (i.e. hotel room for safety reasons) and let the night continue. This doesn't sound outrageous does it? Didn't think so. Next slide please . . .
Slide 3 Titled "Hi, what's your name and what are you like?": As I pursue this mysterious (and at times almost unattainable) sexual partner, I have a set criteria that is a must. My musts are sense of humor, flirty, intelligent, attractive (subjective I know), and a height weight proportioned woman that has herself together (i.e. she's not bat shit crazy - this is a widely accepted term in the dating industry and you should know what it means :). Age can be anywhere from 25 - 40, being a non-smoker is a must, as well as being drug and disease free.
So assuming this is up your alley and you want to partake in this brand of vodka, click on that Reply to this Post button and place in the subject line "Good times, Bad Times, You know I've Had My Share", so I know you aren't working for the evil empire. Two to three sentence replies with no creativity will be deleted, and anyone brave enough to send a picture right out of the gate will receive a reply regardless of attraction.
I would encourage the use of the words "no", "stop", "please don't", or any other phrase that may go along with this scenario which is why I would also insist on the agreement of a "safe" word or phrase so that we can both make sure that nobody is pushed beyond their comfortable limits..
One thing you should know is that I have too big of a heart to do this to someone who didn't consent to it.. I couldn't have some poor woman living the rest of her life knowing she was violated by a stranger in that manner, that's not right.. The mental effects of such an act are far too catastrophic to even consider or remotely entertain doing this to someone who didn't know, or consent to it first.. I'm not an animal, lol.. I just have a kinky side to me and I like the animalistic nature of such an activity and wish to explore it with someone who shares the same desires...
So by now I'm assuming you know I am real, so I don't see a need to verify further, lol.. My greatest hope is that you also realize that my intentions are not to hurt anyone, but to explore another more primitive manner of sexual activity.. Should you reply please be real in honestly interested.. I understand having reservations about agreeing to such a thing so I'm more than willing to talk for awhile before any agreement to meet each other.. Also, should you prefer we could meet in public for the first time to help further ease any reservations you may have.. Otherwise I can and would like to host..
Even though it's going to be hard enough to find someone for this, I have just a few restrictions I have to put out there..
I'm in good shape and take care of myself, I'm also d/d free so I have a couple of minor expectations.. I don't mind some extra weight on a woman however I don't like the BBW category, it's just not my preference.. A size 14 would have to be my limit unless you carry it well.. I don't mind 420, or other mild recreational drugs like the occasional vicodin or something like that but otherwise no hard drugs (cocaine, herione, etc..).. Drinkers are welcome.. Age isn't too important however be over 18 and under 45 or so.. Smokers ok.. Disease free is a must and non-negotiable and condoms WILL be worn.. I am disease free and intend on staying that way!!
Other than that, I'm open :) When you reply please include something about yourself like why this interests you and your physical stats.. Pictures will be required after about 2 emails, and I will return the favor don't worry.. I'm also not looking for endless emails.. I agree we need to be comfortable but after 5 or 6 emails you should know how you feel about all of this.. One last thing, if you could put "I'm ready" in the subject of your email I would greatly appreciate it because it will help me weed out the a##hole spammer that troll around here..
I think that many times people have fantasies that are never fulfilled because of fear. Many times those fantasies become an obsession because they are never acted upon, yet still, we become even more frustrated out of fear.
Perhaps it is just me, although I do not think so. I have always been somewhat submissive in my life, as well as in my fantasies; but I also get very excited at the thought of helping someone else with their submission fantasies. I would like to be that person who can sit with you over a soda and talk openly about your most extreme and secret desires. That person you feel safe opening up to, where you can say exactly what you want, but also what your limits are (there is a big difference.) Imagine sitting in a car and having a live version of phone sex if you will, living out your fantasy in a safe situation, talking to eachother about what we would be doing if alone, yet also telling me when to slow down, stop, or back off. Perhaps you would be interested in hearing my submissive fantasies also, and helping me with mine.
So what are the fantasies that overwhelm you but you never have the courage to act out? Perhaps it is total submission, perhaps it is just kinky or daring. Is there a way to act them out without actually taking the risk? Can we set up a scenario and pretend it is real? Can we do all of this without changing our personal lives? Can this be our secret? Can we make a committment to eachother to protect eachother from health risks, personal risks, professional risks, legal risks and more. Can this just be our secret, one that we look forward to doing again next week, or next month, or same time next year? Can we learn to understand the other person better than they know themself, and in ways no one else will ever know us?
A little about me...I am stable, I was married for 16 yrs about 2 yrs being divorced. I am 5'10" and 175lb and I am athletic with brown eyes. Some say I look like Johnny Depp, but who knows. I have a great job and I do have 2 older sons. I am a guy that bring warmth inside and I do play tease to make you laugh and really to know me is to love me. I have been through loss frommany ways from seeing death in my family many times, from a ripped heart to seeing people being homeless and even caring enough to draft a paper on how to fix it. I love deep and vows until death. I guess what I am saying is I want the reflection of me and not someone that has no idea what love feels like and what it means. I think this message will get to the right women.
Email me back and let's talk over dinner next weekend.
P.S Who would really put a picture of themselves up here, since it can be used anywhere and you don't want people you know seeing you here? --lol Just send me a email and in the subject put "I want to get to Know You"...I really don't like greedy people (spam) trying to waste what we have little of---Time. Send me a picture and tell me about you.
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